I was just browsing through internet when my eyes got locked onto some thoughts about LOVE. Not just in one site, I have seen various sites, articles, books describing love as divine, spiritual affinity, and even they made love equal to God!!!
In fact LOVE is not that great and all. It is just a feeling; not an emotion based on any thoughts. People Love when they do not think. That’s why it is said “Falling in love”. When a boy/girl loves, they see only their partner’s good sides. They don’t see what are his/her true identity and the worse part of partner. In fact they don’t get chance to see, because in LOVE, most times, the person won’t be truly himself/herself. They just pretend and act to make his/her loving partner feel good. However, you’ll come to know your partner’s true identity once your Love becomes “successful”. In love life you won’t see your partner’s true character or behavior or attitude. You see only his/her ways to carry on the relation. There won’t be any transparency in LOVE!
If you want someone who really understands as well one who you understand to be your life partner; first establish friendship with him/her. Friendship is the only relation in this world which is not “Undercover”! There is nothing to hide between Friends. There are no secrets. There are no sexual discrepancies. It is eternal! So even if you get into relation with your friend understanding & transparency will be there among selves!
However, I didn’t mean to tell that there is NO true love at all! True love is there, but very few. Most of the love relations are based on compromises, hidings, acting and all. Very few couples are there in intimate, transparent, true love!
And imagine when you love someone truly to heart, a transparent relation; and in the end, losing your lover; marrying someone else! Even then you will be living with your lover’s thoughts, and chances of life getting ruined are high. There are lots of examples in front of our eyes for such incidents. All this happen due to what I said in the beginning- Lovers will see only the good & positive side of their partner. They believe their partner is so good & expect lot from him/her. But, when they don’t see all these good qualities and their expectations from their partner, the crack begins in relation which will lead to break heart even!
So if you LOVE someone let it be transparent, understanding each other, and live your relation without compromises. Be true to your partner. If you can’t do that, DO NOT LOVE!!
on your face but correct to the 't'.bravo luv guru bravo.
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