For all those who are & are not in LOVE!!

I was just browsing through internet when my eyes got locked onto some thoughts about LOVE. Not just in one site, I have seen various sites, articles, books describing love as divine,  spiritual affinity, and even they made love equal to God!!!

In fact LOVE is not that great and all. It is just a feeling; not an emotion based on any thoughts. People Love when they do not think. That’s why it is said “Falling in love”. When a boy/girl loves, they see only their partner’s good sides. They don’t see what are his/her true identity and the worse part of partner. In fact they don’t get chance to see, because in LOVE, most times, the person won’t be truly himself/herself. They just pretend and act to make his/her loving partner feel good. However, you’ll come to know your partner’s true identity once your Love becomes “successful”. In love life you won’t see your partner’s true character or behavior or attitude. You see only his/her ways to carry on the relation. There won’t be any transparency in LOVE!

If you want someone who really understands as well one who you understand to be your life partner; first establish friendship with him/her. Friendship is the only relation in this world which is not “Undercover”! There is nothing to hide between Friends. There are no secrets. There are no sexual discrepancies. It is eternal!  So even if you get into relation with your friend understanding & transparency will be there among selves!

However, I didn’t mean to tell that there is NO true love at all! True love is there, but very few. Most of the love relations are based on compromises, hidings, acting and all. Very few couples are there in intimate, transparent, true love!

And imagine when you love someone truly to heart, a transparent relation; and in the end, losing your lover; marrying someone else! Even then you will be living with your lover’s thoughts, and chances of life getting ruined are high. There are lots of examples in front of our eyes for such incidents. All this happen due to what I said in the beginning- Lovers will see only the good & positive side of their partner. They believe their partner is so good & expect lot from him/her. But, when they don’t see all these good qualities and their expectations from their partner, the crack begins in relation which will lead to break heart even!

So if you LOVE someone let it be transparent, understanding each other, and live your relation without compromises. Be true to your partner. If you can’t do that, DO NOT LOVE!!

Shocking news!!

My Nokia 3310 alarm blew with a horrible irritating tone at 7 AM! It was so chill that morning also. A typical Bangalore winter morning! I shifted my alarming brick (Nokia 3310) from my left to right and vice versa thus finishing my morning dumbbell training.

Dusted my ass and got up, cursing the times I joined with that software giant! Even though there is no work for me at office, my manager used to shout when he sees me turning up to office a minute late. There were days when I used to believe/wonder that the company will pack up if I resign!! Such was the build up by manager when he does not see me around.

Other than me, three were staying in that so called ‘2BHK’ home at Madiwala. After a 10 min ‘treasure hunt’, I found my toothbrush and paste.Then moved in to the bathroom to start up my ‘morning services’. In ten minutes I ‘cleaned up’ myself; hit myself with axe (deo), packed me in formal wears and went out to ‘Kottaram’ mess!  There Shaji served me Kerala special ‘Steamcake’. It is good as it used to be-you can use it to chase away the Bangalore stray dogs. But be careful that it should not fall on our leg, else you gonna hurt yourself!! 

My office was in ITPL, exactly an hour’s travel in Volvo bus costing me Rs 45!! I have to walk one KM to Silkboard bus stop to catch my bus. Used to wonder when I see the buses bounded to ITPL coming- what are these many so called ‘IT brains’ doing in their office?? The buses used to be so crowded with people in ‘corporate world’! After an hour’s travel in Volvo with many co-techie brainy storms, I reached my office at 9AM. Perfect!! Punctual!!

Opened my mail box.  It was a great shock for me, there was no work!! I leaned back to my revolving cozy chair happily. Then I thought what an exceptional day! After a bit of googling and chatting, I went to cafeteria. I had a tea and a hamburger which was laughing at me! While I was relaxing in cafeteria checking the new girls who joined the firm, Freddy came with a cup of coffee and told me that 6 ‘resources’ in their team were sacked as there is no work for them! 

Uffff.!!! OMG!! I too don’t have any work! Are they planning to sack me too? If no job how will I eat pizza, burger, Chicken biriyani, most of all how will I booze at night? Hundreds of thoughts ran to my mind. I ran to my manager’s desk. Seeing me, his face was filled with surprise as things used to happen the other way round-I used to run away when I see manager’s face! Today I’ve voluntary popped up in his front! What else for him to get a shock? He asked me with a curiosity-Any issues, Mr. Sri? I humbly answered “Couldn’t see any work today”! Double shock for my manager!! Prayed that his heart attack should be mild, because I can’t carry him to hospital!! He replied with a smile “Quarter end shut down is going on, so you can relax till next Monday”! 

Oh bull shit.. !! From Monday again I’ve to start working! Thinking like this I returned to my desk for browsing! Sorry, for data mining!